To a dear friend

It hurts when people you care so much about get swallowed up by pain. They fail to realize that when you see or hear them crying,it's also tearing you apart deep inside. When you tell your friends what you're going through, don't just expect them to sit back, relax and just listen to your endless rantings. Don't just expect them to tell you that "everything is going to be fine"  because in time, they can no longer just sit back and watch. They will stand up for you and fight. 

Don't expect me to stop fighting for you because believe me,  I had tried to stop myself.  You do not just expect me to get on with my life as if nothing happened because whether you like it or not, the moment you told me what's going on, I got myself caught up in the situation. 

I may not know him personally... I don't need to. The way he treated me through virtual conversation is more than enough to tell me that he is not good for you. Jerks like that don't deserve nice girls like you.  

And yes... I am sad and disappointed on how you have defended him despite of what he has done to you emotionally. Would you rather be an option? A hobby? I hope you realize that he probably has spent more time playing online games than actually have a meaningful conversation with you. 

He had deleted himself from my friend's list, but that doesn't mean that he can easily get rid of me because the moment he entered your relationship, he should have known that he is in a relationship with your friends and family too. 

A lot of your good friends had been telling you to just let go and move on. You chose the other path. I tell you to stop being emotional and just be logical, you just told me to stop ignoring him. I would ignore him if you do. 

He has bad friends, as you say. You have good ones. Do not think that you can change him because you love him. He will change for the better,eventually, if he realizes your worth. He should have known that. You should know that. 

Do you really love yourself? Do you know your worth? Honestly, I think you do, otherwise you wouldn't feel unappreciated. But dear, you are giving your love to the wrong person. 

I don't want to stop fighting this battle because you are in such an emotional mess right now. But since you asked me to, then I will. If in case you decide to be with him, as I said, I'll respect that. But then again, just like what I have also said, if he as much as hurts you again, don't expect that I will be there for you because I probably won't because the moment he does, who knows what I'm going to do.